What is the difference

What is the difference to you between 'making love' and just plain 'screwing'?

One I'm emotionally invested and one I'm just interested in getting the two of us off and out of there as quickly as possible to be blunt and to the point.

There goes the nice guy image lol

Just being honest mate. I have to love someone to 'make love' to them obviously, and as I tend to be cautious about getting involved and take my time before commiting to relationships I guess alot of my involvements in the past couple of years have been purely physical flings

I don't see any problem with that as long as you are up front about it. Women are just as guilty as men as needing a quick non emotional physical hook up on occasions. As long as both halves of the equation know it then all is good.

Was just joking about the nice guy image thing mate. You're one of the most upfront forthright blokes I know. Just sometimes get a bit shocked when you come out and say something cause you normally hold things so close to your chest if you know what I'm trying to say.

A world of difference. The physical aspect is good regardless but if you want that mind blowing moment when the world absolutely stops still you have to be emotionally invested.

i tend to "screw" a guy, and "make love" with a woman