I'm debating whether to go with the crude version, or the equally as honest but more socially acceptable for a public forum version.
Experimental, wild, not afraid to take risks or act on the spur of the moment, sexually confident, lights on, on top, self assured, deep throating, very vocal woman is my female of choice.
(and this is where the mushy stuff kicks in)
But if she doesn't hold my heart in her hands, it doesn't matter what part of me she's got a grip on because great is as good as its going to get. To achieve mind blowing I quite literally have to be head over heels sorry.