Rough vs Gentle

Do both figure in your vocab; a simple matter of different things attracting you at a different time, or do you have a preferance for one over the other?

everything got its time in my opinion............... one day it may feel right to do the satin sheets, candlelights, roses, hug'n'kiss and all that shit with soft music and some champagne............

the day after it can be absolutely perfect to stand there with a whip in my hand and dripping the hot wax from the candles that was sooooo romantic the day before all over her :P


variety m8... variety

Got to agree with Viking 100% here. Some days you just want to take your time and make the moment last forever, and others the need is just so intense that you both almost have a heartattack the pace is so frantic. The same pace, the same pressure, the same position gets mighty stale mighty fast so switching between the two is the logical way to go.

My preference changes according to my moods, the situation and who I'm with. I think most people would incorporate both in any one session surely. Position, pace, force, it all changes in a fraction of a second as excitment levels rise.

:nods in agreement: But.. both are equally as important.. sensuality & sweaty, heat filled passion

I tend to err on the side of gentle

Wonder why mate

You know its just penis envy on my part don't ya. If you've got it bloody well flaunt it I say.

Haha. Gentle please, if you don't mind.

i would agree with sim, prefer gentle..

occasionaly yes a good rough quickie shag with a guy does hot the spot..... when need passion and really in mood for a guy....


with women, sensual gentle fun is wow, but urgency and passion can be wow aswell x

Variety is the name of the game. Sometimes slow and sensual is what you are both in the mood for. Sometimes its just full on, rip em off, no holes barred straight for it. Time and place for both.