Keeping it quiet

Can you hear a pin drop during sex, or are you one of the loud and proud vocal crowd? This question springs to mind having just spent a few nights down on the Mornington peninsula, and the couple next door going for it 3 nights in a row so loudly an earthquake would have caused less trauma to our ears.

i am conscious that i make noise ... so try to keep silent, but a few noises do creep out

I'm more the quiet sort, unless I've had one glass of wine to many. Deathly silent would be a real buzz kill though.

Eeek, I posted twice ........ blonde moment

I think there is many different categories here. You have the so silent you can hear the pin drop quiet, the occasional OMG moment, the loud and proud moaning moment, or the porno style dirty talk moment.

Voicing your pleasure, whether it be simply a moan you can't control, or giving your partner verbal confirmation that they have indeed hit the spot, is a very good thing.

I'm not the quiet type. Hell, I like to know if I'm doing the right thing, so the more vocal the better.

Giving voice to pleasure is empowering for sure, but I'm more a moaner

:chuckles in Franks direction:

Just what the hell was in that posting you deleted Sarah, and why aren't Benj or Frank for that matter spilling their guts even when I beg?

Yours truly, well being a singer I'm obviously rather keen on stretching my vocal chords in the bedroom.

Damn you woman.

I don't like over the top smut talk but noises that happen naturally likes moans, sighs and stuff just adds to the moment.

Loud and proud moaner here.

(suffer Dave, until Sarah stops bribing me the lips remain sealed)

Quiet - no. Into a whole heap of dirty talk just for the sake of it - hell no.

dirty talk commes naturally for me...........................

hmmmmmmmm but I can also get all cuddly wuddly during slow sessions

I find the dirty talk quite off putting, but total quietness if even worse.

I like just hearing the breathing, and don't mind if you throw some dirty talk in there. If you were in the next room you would hear us.

Forget the porn dialogue, find someone you feel comfortable with and just let loose. If somethings right, noise is natural and lets your other half know to keep on doing whatever he or she is doing in the first place!

I like to let her know when she's doin a real good job on me, nothing loud just a few spoken words. On the other hand, If the girl is fairly quiet I make it a personal mission to get as much noise out of her as humanly possible, not only to avoid flushin my male pride down the shitter but i get my sexual buzz from how much the girl is gettin out of it. The more she enjoys it, the more I do. Deathly silent is a turn off, you might as well be banging blow up brenda :)

Surely even the meekest quietest of women can summon up enough courage to whisper "that feels good" when you are going about your business. As Jam said it makes us feel shithot, you realise that you've found a spot worth exploring further and make a mental note of how to change things up next time, and it takes away alot of potential nerves if its a new partner. And if you're too coy to utter anything than just take the right hand god gave ya and push his head/hands or whatever exactly where they will do you the most good to help us on our mission to please you.