Bisexuality

I'm not sure whether the female of the species is hard wired to be more open to new things, or society and celebrities in particular have made bi sexuality so acceptable that normal women everywhere are suddenly giving it serious thought. Sex is sex. Two people enjoying each others company and doing whatever they can to make the experience as mind blowing for the other as possible. Does it really matter the gender of the people concerned?

The only thing holding me back would be fear. I don't find the idea of two women together repulsive at all, I just worry that I would have absolutely no idea what to do. Kind of like that first awkward moment with a guy I guess. But to fail at pleasing a woman, when you are one yourself? Talk about pressure.

lacy. i understand your fear, believe. It does come naturally when you are relaxed, or you can be taught by someone expereinced.

No different than first time with a guy, you don't really know what to expect and do. But when with a female, you know what presses your buttons, and you naturally follow that sense. And at the same time exploration is arousing and all part of the experience. And allow the other woman to explore you... and feel new things, new sensual textures and passion.. xxx

I can't even remember that far back to when I was first with a guy, but I'm sure I was shitting myself with nerves. Seems only natural that you would feel the same way with a woman. But I'm with lacy (well I think it was lacy) who said the main fear would be if you were pathetic at it. I get that we should be able to hit the right mark because we are of the same gender, but no two females are turned on in quite the same way. I'd have to be totally shitfaced I think to ever work up the courage.

well I probably had an advantage.. long story..

i am sure you would thank yourself for finding that courage, and yes no two people, women or men, are the same, but exploring what does tick the boxes, no pun intended, is so arousing, and finding each other in the sensuality, without the pressure to perform for a guy, who has one goal.... with women it can last for hours, plateau and then start again... as well as being passionate...

i hope you do find out.. the only regret u would have was not trying earlier xx